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Cindy Froggatt's avatar

I like to describe the best environments as ones where I feel comfortable enough that I fit in, that I am also brave enough to stand out. Fitting In/Standing Out (FISO) - I use examples from fiction to make this point to my son - Camp Half Blood, Hogwarts. We live in a neighborhood that meets this standard. Now he has the opportunity to choose a college that fits. I try to emphasize the word “enough” - comfortable enough, brave enough. It is not going to be easy during the reign of Trump. Your work is important, Sally. You will find the words.

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Laura Lambert's avatar

The web of… population stratification and belonging. Doublespeak is not easy! And this is ridiculous, as we know.

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Sally Helgesen's avatar

Yes! Doublespeak has been with us for a while ("rightsizing" when applied to firing people) but now it is taking off, reaching new heights of grotesquerie.

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Sally Helgesen's avatar

Thank you Cindy. Sounds as if you have prepared your son well for the world. We will need people like him. And we will get through it.

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Julie Anixter's avatar

Sally!!!!!!!!

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liliana nealon's avatar

Inclusivity?

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Rachel Simmons's avatar

I'm right there with you. Thanks for sharing the backdrop of history and literature.

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